Do holograms have orgasms?

The fact that this energy varies greatly from person to person is perhaps a mystery but the whole point of Taoistic Sexual practices is seen in the cultivation and transformation of sexual energies. Where this energy is experienced also varies from person to person. Most people identify and concentrate their attention in their genitals and the release happens just there for them but that limits the very idea and pleasure of sex. The Heart of Sex has to take into account the whole, meaning the great variety of energy and passion people feel. Some people are highly oversexed and seem to have an inexhaustible supply that never seems to run dry. Others are so repressed that any orgasmic release depletes them running the energy down rather than up. Women have an entirely different problem to confront than men who are rarely known to go without orgasm for any length of time. Women on the other hand report in mass having orgasmic difficulties and some report never ever having one. The Psychology of Orgasm is universal though, meaning it applies equally well for both men and women despite the anatomical differences between male and female genitals. Orgasms in men and women are physiologically, psychologically and subjectively similar. Studies have been done in which "experts" could not reliably determine gender when reading descriptions of orgasms with all anatomical references removed. The reason behind these similarities is found in the most profound definition of orgasm of all; orgasm is the bliss of union.

Though the whole trend and force behind modern sexuality is directed toward the satisfaction of orgasm, and despite the fact that both Tantra and Taoists prescribe anti-orgasmic policies (anti-ejaculation), The Heart of Sex embraces orgasm as a potentially cosmic event. Though for many reasons discussed elsewhere in this book that follow the Tantric and Taoist design, (i.e., the control of ejaculation Vs orgasm) orgasm itself is healthy and potentially capable of elevating our consciousness to new heights. On the lowest level orgasm (for the male) signals the end of lovemaking (for the moment) except in the case of a woman who is versed in the experience of multiple orgasms. But these women seem rare according to most reports.

If we are going to end our lovemaking in a blinding flash of climax, then it might as well be a momentous occasion. Perhaps it is more intelligent to interpret part of the obsession the Taoists and Tantric people have with orgasm or ejaculation control as resisting the urge to orgasm only on lower thresholds of consciousness. The Heart of Sex though covers both sides of the question because each person has to follow their own heart and their own biological needs in this regard. There is though a secret to orgasm that we will discover in the Psychology of Bliss.